Teach your son that God is his ultimate example of masculinity
“For a man ought not to have his head covered, since he is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of man.” – I Corinthians 11:7 (NASB)
Teach your son to be strong in mind and body
“I am going the way of all the earth. Be strong, therefore, and show yourself a man.” – I Kings 2:2 (NASB)
“A wise man is strong, and a man of knowledge increases power.” – Proverbs 24:5 (NASB)
“Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” – I Corinthians 16:13 (NASB)
Teach your son to be brave
“Therefore, keep up your courage, men” – Acts 27:25 (NASB)
“But we are not of those who shrink back to destruction, but of those who have faith to the preserving of the soul.” – Hebrews 10:39 (NASB)
Teach your son to be a leader
“The righteous is a guide to his neighbor, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.” – Proverbs 12:26 (NASB)
Teach your son to listen to wise counsel
“A wise man will hear and increase in learning, and a man of understanding will acquire wise counsel” – Proverbs 1:5 (NASB)
“Where there is no guidance the people fall, but in abundance of counselors there is victory.” – Proverbs 11:14 (NASB)
Teach your son to be a man of integrity
“A righteous man who walks in his integrity— How blessed are his sons after him.” – Proverbs 20:7 (NASB)
“A good name is to be more desired than great wealth, favor is better than silver and gold.” – Proverbs 22:1 (NASB)
“The integrity of the upright will guide them, but the crookedness of the treacherous will destroy them.” – Proverbs 11:3 (NASB)
Teach your son to channel his competitive and aggressive nature but do not suppress it
“Blessed be the Lord, my rock, who trains my hands for war, and my fingers for battle” – Psalm 144:1 (NASB)
“Fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives and your houses.” – Nehemiah 4:14 (NASB)
Teach your son to channel his anger but do not suppress it
“Be angry, and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger” – Ephesians 4:26 (NASB)
“Like a city that is broken into and without walls is a man who has no control over his spirit.” – Proverbs 25:28 (NASB)
“He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit, than he who captures a city.” – Proverbs 16:32 (NASB)
Teach your son to channel his sexuality but do not suppress it
“Your head crowns you like Carmel, and the flowing locks of your head are like purple threads;
The king is captivated by your tresses.
“How beautiful and how delightful you are, my love, with all your charms!
“Your stature is like a palm tree, and your breasts are like its clusters.”
”I said, ‘I will climb the palm tree,
I will take hold of its fruit stalks.’
Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine,
And the fragrance of your breath like apples,
And your mouth like the best wine!” – Song of Solomon 7:5-9 (NASB)
Teach your son to defend the weak
“Learn to do good; Seek justice, Reprove the ruthless, Defend the orphan, Plead for the widow.” – Isaiah 1:17 (NASB)
“Open your mouth, judge righteously, and defend the rights of the afflicted and needy.” – Proverbs 31:9 (NASB)
“Moses was educated in all the learning of the Egyptians, and he was a man of power in words and deeds… And when he saw one of them being treated unjustly, he defended him and took vengeance for the oppressed by striking down the Egyptian.” – Acts 7:22 & 24 (NASB)
Teach your son to not be manipulated by women’s sexual charms
“For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching is light; And reproofs for discipline are the way of life to keep you from the evil woman, from the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Do not desire her beauty in your heart, nor let her capture you with her eyelids. For on account of a harlot one is reduced to a loaf of bread, and an adulteress hunts for the precious life.” – Proverbs 6:23-26 (NASB)
Teach your son the value of hard work
“Man goes forth to his work and to his labor until evening.” Psalm 104:23 (NASB)
“Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will stand before kings; He will not stand before obscure men.” – Proverbs 22:29 (NASB)
“He who gathers in summer is a son who acts wisely, but he who sleeps in harvest is a son who acts shamefully.” – Proverbs 10:5 (NASB)
“Here is what I have seen to be good and fitting: to eat, to drink and enjoy oneself in all one’s labor in which he toils under the sun during the few years of his life which God has given him; for this is his reward.” – Ecclesiastes 5:18 (NASB)
“Commit your works to the Lord and your plans will be established.” – Proverbs 16:3 (NASB)
“He also who is slack in his work is brother to him who destroys.” – Proverbs 18:9 (NASB)
“Prepare your work outside and make it ready for yourself in the field; Afterwards, then, build your house.” – Proverbs 24:27 (NASB)
“The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage, but everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty.” – Proverbs 21:5 (NASB)
“In all labor there is profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.” – Proverbs 14:23 (NASB)
Teach your son to value and seek out a wife and have a family
“Enjoy life with the woman whom you love all the days of your fleeting life which He has given to you under the sun; for this is your reward in life and in your toil in which you have labored under the sun.” – Ecclesiastes 9:9 (NASB)
“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” – Proverbs 18:22 (NASB)
“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.” – Proverbs 31:30 (NASB)
“Behold, children are a gift of the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth. How blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them” – Psalm 127:3-5 (NASB)
Teach your son that men provide for and protect their women and children
“When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own house, his possessions are undisturbed.” – Luke 11:21 (NASB)
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless. So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, because we are members of His body.” – Ephesians 5:25-28 (NASB)
“A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, and the wealth of the sinner is stored up for the righteous.” – Proverbs 13:22 (NASB)
Teach your son to show proper respect for authority
“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be prolonged in the land which the Lord your God gives you.” – Exodus 20:10 (NASB)
“Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human institution, whether to a king as the one in authority, or to governors as sent by him for the punishment of evildoers and the praise of those who do right.” – I Peter 2:13-14 (NASB)
“Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they keep watch over your souls as those who will give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with grief, for this would be unprofitable for you.” – Hebrews 13:17 (NASB)
Teach your son to show proper honor to women
“You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.” – I Peter 3:7 (NASB)
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