Usually when we think of sexual refusal we think of women refusing sex to their husbands. But while it is true that most sexual refusal involves the wife refusing the husband, there are some cases where it is the husband refusing the wife. And this is just as much a sin before God as a wife refusing her husband sexually.

Women are also wired by God to make themselves desirable for and to feel desired by men. That is why the vast majority of beauty products are marketed to and bought by women. For a woman to admit her husband no longer wants sex with her is the same in her mind as admitting she is no longer desirable.

It is for these two reasons, the rarity of husbands refusing sex from their wives and women not wanting to admit they are not desired by their husbands that women can sometimes go years without admitting the issue.

In this podcast I first discuss several reasons a husband may not be desiring sex and also talk about women sometimes in a marriage needing to step up and initiate more.

But then I do address the issue many women have written me about over the years that they try to initiate all the time, even though they would prefer he does, yet he still turns them down even when they initiate sex.

I talk about how a woman, because of her subordinate position, must address this in a somewhat different manner than a husband would with his wife as her authority and give steps to address the situation.

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4 Steps To Confront Your Husband’s Sexual Refusal