Are you a man frustrated with the American dating scene? Have you spent thousands of dollars on dating sites or gurus telling you how to change yourself to attract women and yet you have come up empty? What if the answer to finding a wife is not about trying to navigate the American dating scene but instead going completely around it?
All the stats today show that the dating scene is completely stacked against men. Two thirds of young single men are looking for a wife while only one third of young single women are looking for a husband. This means there are several eligible men competing for each eligible woman.
And when you add to this fact that only a fraction of the young single women in America looking for marriage today are conservative, traditional and godly Christians who want to be submissive wives and homemakers – that makes the chances of a man finding a conservative godly wife here in American even smaller.
But in the midst of the dark dating scene here in America there is still hope for those men who want to find a godly traditional wife.
Jesus said in Matthew 7:7 “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.”
Many godly young men have prayed for years and asked God to bring them a conservative traditional Christian wife. But they have limited themselves in where they are seeking a wife. They are only looking in their local church, local town or perhaps on dating sites limiting themselves to the surrounding area.
Some men might say they have even tried to open themselves up to women in other states and that is a good thing. But few men today have allowed themselves to consider opening themselves up to looking for a wife in another country.
And the sad part is, that a good Christian man with a solid job has the GREATEST chance of finding a godly traditional wife not in America, but rather outside of America.
Why are most American men unwilling to look outside of America for a wife? Sometimes it is fear of being with a woman from another culture who may perhaps not speak English as well. Many times it is because of stories they hear of foreign women who pretended to love an American man, they marry him and then after getting their citizenship they divorce him. And that does happen sometimes. But it does not happen all the time or even most of the time and there ways to guard against marrying a woman who has these wicked motives.
Other men are afraid of the costs involved in getting a foreign wife. On that point I won’t sugar coat it. It will cost money. But anything worthwhile will cost you.
But here is the good news.
There are godly traditional Christian women in countries which have a much lower standard of living, some with great poverty, who would absolutely jump at the idea of marrying an American Christian man and him bringing them back to America.
Women in Central and South American countries like Guatemala, Venezuela, Honduras and Brazil.
Women in Asian countries like the Philippines and Vietnam.
Women in Eastern European countries like Latvia, Estonia, Lithuania, Hungary and Romania.
In my new podcast series on BGRLearning.com, “7 Steps to Finding a Godly Foreign Wife” I give Christian men a detailed, step by step plan that can help them find a godly traditional wife from a nation that does not have the standard of living that America has. These foreign Christian women have qualities that most American women lack and one of those qualities is gratefulness.
In additional to being grateful, these women from rural areas of foreign countries have been raised in traditional cultures that are often unaffected by feminism. They have been taught to respect men. They are excellent cooks and they know how to take care of a home. And they are taught to serve and please their men.
As I state in this podcast series often, I am not telling men to give up all hope of finding a godly traditional Christian woman here in America. There are godly traditional Christian women here in America. But young men need to have a plan A and plan B when it comes to finding a wife.
Plan A is trying to find a godly wife here in America. But while they are trying to find a godly Christian wife here in America whether it be locally or on dating sites, young Christian men should be taking that time to make preparations for Plan B – which is finding a wife in a foreign land. And that is what I help men with in this podcast series – making preparations for and executing a Plan B approach to finding a wife.
If you as a man have lost hope in ever finding a wife – I promise that this series will give you a new and reinvigorated sense of hope and show you possibilities you may never have considered.
Click on the link below to listen to this series today!
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